How to know if you are ready to be collared?
No one can tell if your ready or not, this is something you have to feel is right. You say you are reluctant, and you do notice this. Personally we all will have those, regardless of who we are. I believe that if you “what if” everything to death you will find reasons to turn it down. The real question is do you honor and love this Dom to the point you could step in front of a bullet for him? When you answer yes without even thinking about it, then you are ready.
I know this sounds rather hard core, but this is what the lifestyle about, it’s the extreme in everything I believe. So when you feel serving him is right in your heart then you might consider it.
As for your abilities as a sub, all things take time, regardless you have to learn the expectations of any master you serve. Thats just the way things are, forget what you learned in the past and focus on what he wants and desires.
So in short, when you feel that serving him is the most important thing in the world, then its time to be collared
“There WILL be pain involved … But only if you ask nicely”
